Hi Breck,
I've logged hundreds of hours on a 4 1/2" grinder, though I have very limited (almost non-existent) experience with the Arbortec. Most of my hours on the grinder have not been enviable, even by masochists, and many have been in a Tyvek suit with a respirator.
My best 4 1/2" grinder was a Milwaukee that lasted about 8 years as my primary grinder working construction, concrete, and boat repair. It still runs, but the switch has gone bad (and fixed) enough times to need a new replacement. I bought that in 2002, and if you can find one of those, it should do well.
I recently bought a Makita, and it's holding up well, and has good trigger placement for me. I also like a smaller body to the grinder, so it's slim in the hand. For fit, it should be comfortable using it one-handed (though of course that's not recommended for safety.) So the ideal grinder body for you depends on the size and shape of your hands. The Milwaukee was my favorite, and fit me well grinding one-handed from ladders and on boats (also not recommended for safety reasons...)
I'm also a nut for balance of a tool. When you use a tool a lot, it's important. I've run a few cheap imports on various jobs where the balance of the grinder felt so bad my first thought was that the tool is an accident waiting to happen. Grinders are up there with old combines, chainsaws, and woodlathes for potential injuries—so it's worth having the best.
Good luck, and post some pictures here if you get a chance.