As everyone is aware, Ed and I have been on different sides of the fence regarding the AAW trainwreck. Although we've never met in person, we've been friends for the last several years. Ed has always been ready to offer woodturning advice over the phone and answer any emails that I have sent his way. Needless to say, our friendship has been strained. We, like many others, have both made our share of inflammatory posts and, at times, have taunted each other.
Yesterday, Ed and I spoke over the telephone. It was a lengthy conversation. This afternoon, I sent the following message to Ed. I would like to share it with the forum:
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Ed . . .
I really enjoyed talking with you last night. As you were talking, I was thinking to myself . . . no wonder I like this guy so much. Not only are you a highly skilled and creative woodturner . . . but, you are one damn decent human being. It also occurred to me that I had already lost two other friends over all of this mess . . . and that I don't care to lose anymore.
With that said, I am about to go to both the AAW and Woodturnersforum and announce that I am stepping aside from the fight. I am dropping my affiliation with both sites and will not allow myself to be dragged down into the mud any longer. It's just not productive nor is it good for my inner peace. I plan on remaining a member of AAW.
Best wishes,
Al
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I've also reflected on the following thoughts . . . .
At this very moment, somebody's son or daughter is trying to stay alive in Afghanistan while terrorists are planting roadside bombs.
At this very moment, there's a four year old child laying in a hospital bed, fighting for his life as cancer ravages his body.
At this very moment, there's an elderly parent suffering from Alzheimer's who doesn't remember his own daughter's name.
The list could go on and on. But, the point is . . . . why am I exerting all of this negative energy arguing with my wooodturning friends.
It's time for me to get my life back and do something to try to help others.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post. But, more importantly . . . when will you say "No mas?"
Yesterday, Ed and I spoke over the telephone. It was a lengthy conversation. This afternoon, I sent the following message to Ed. I would like to share it with the forum:
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Ed . . .
I really enjoyed talking with you last night. As you were talking, I was thinking to myself . . . no wonder I like this guy so much. Not only are you a highly skilled and creative woodturner . . . but, you are one damn decent human being. It also occurred to me that I had already lost two other friends over all of this mess . . . and that I don't care to lose anymore.
With that said, I am about to go to both the AAW and Woodturnersforum and announce that I am stepping aside from the fight. I am dropping my affiliation with both sites and will not allow myself to be dragged down into the mud any longer. It's just not productive nor is it good for my inner peace. I plan on remaining a member of AAW.
Best wishes,
Al
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I've also reflected on the following thoughts . . . .
At this very moment, somebody's son or daughter is trying to stay alive in Afghanistan while terrorists are planting roadside bombs.
At this very moment, there's a four year old child laying in a hospital bed, fighting for his life as cancer ravages his body.
At this very moment, there's an elderly parent suffering from Alzheimer's who doesn't remember his own daughter's name.
The list could go on and on. But, the point is . . . . why am I exerting all of this negative energy arguing with my wooodturning friends.
It's time for me to get my life back and do something to try to help others.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post. But, more importantly . . . when will you say "No mas?"