Hi Tom......
Not sure if this will help you, but you can see that I've wrapped the Beall buff adaptor with hockey tape. This gives me a little better grip there, plus I always wear rubber coated work gloves while buffing. These things allow for a very good grip with both hands......one on the shaft adaptor, and the other on the buffing wheel itself.
Sometimes it takes a little muscle to break free the buffing wheel, but I've always been able to do it fairly easily. Although the rubber coated work gloves are worn for a more positive grip on the bowl itself while buffing, they do greatly help with changing out the Beall wheels.
-o-
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I don't have that problem, but sounds similar to "stuck chuck/faceplate" which can happen if the spindle or chuck face are dirty or dinged - might check your buffs and shaft make sure that's not the case. Maybe a washer cut from a milk jug would help.
hockey tape sounds like a possible help, but I'm beginning to think you have stocks in the hockey tape biz Odie.
Odie, do I see a blue headed bolt in the end of your set up?
I use hockey tape on all of my wood clamp handles. They make tightening very easy. I also use hockey tape on my carving mallets and hammers. Excellent grip!Tom....Ha,ha.....I originally used the hockey tape for my lathe tool handles, and I found the tape is very useful for other things, too!
Yep, there is a machine bolt with a washer I use to cover up the mating end of the adaptor. I only use it to cover it up while not in use....this is only to prevent dust from getting into the adaptor threads while not being used....
-o-