I love wood like that. I use Minwax wood conditioner alot, just received, or will be for xmas, a vacuum pot and cactus juice to hopefully help me with punky wood. I also sharpen my gouges quite a bit, take very small shavings and go very slow. I use alot of CA too on those with small/tight cracks. In the end, I do leave them a little thicker than planned and use a lot of sandpaper. I do keep a small spray bottle of water/dawn to wet down small areas of tear-out. Again, slow... then slower just incase, stay the heck out of the line of fire. I do have them blow apart so I'm looking for better methods. I admit to being a rookie so take my info with a grain of salt, ymmv.