@Steve Tiedman Thank you for the detailed post. Helpful.
I probably don't know how to apply wax properly. The first several times I tried to apply wax over poly finished bowls, which was Feb/March last year, the only thing I felt the wax did was to dull the finish. It was hard for me, as I'd never really done much with poly before (this was mostly minwax WOP) and it took a lot of effort and time to get a nice, glossy finish with the poly. I did eventually succeed, mostly (nibs...oh, I hate nibs with poly!!), until I put the wax on. Then the gloss was just gone. I had a satin sheen instead, and it didn't seem to matter if I got it out of a can and wiped it on or applied it with a buffing wheel. Gloss isn't always my goal, but that was the goal with these pieces (in large part, just to see what it would really take to get a glossy finish with poly...and it took a lot more than I expected!)
I've only used modern polyurethane, so, its a urethane meaning its a synthetic resin thats more similar to rubber or plastic. I've never had the pleasure of using old style varnishes, even though I have wanted to. I'd love to use a varnish that utilized natural resins instead of a modern synthetic. Some of that is just who I am, I prefer natural substances as much as I can (probably one of the reasons I don't care much for water based finishes), but I also have seen pieces and even furniture finished with varnishes made from natural resins, and they are stunning!
In any case...I am curious, from a general application method standpoint...is there any benefit in applying just oil to start, 2-3 penetrating coats, before using a danish oil or similar home made mix? Would starting with pure oil cause any problems for the varnish in the DO/HomeBrew adhering to the wood or anything like that? I ask, because something I do love about oil finishes is, when they penetrate, they really bring out the most beautiful characteristics of the wood, maximize the chatoyance, figure, etc.
One of the reasons I use shellac rather than other kinds of wood selaers (and I have several other kinds including chestnut, mylands and some kind of nano-particle water based sealer with UV protective properties), is shellac, at least when thinned right, also seems to penetrate a bit, and while it doesn't penetrate as deep as oil can, it does also seem to bring out the chatoyance and other featured of the wood better. The cellulose sanding sealer from mylands and whatever chestnut sealer is, they seem to be more of a surface film that just doesn't do the same thing as oil or shellac when they penetrate a bit.
Anyway. I need to see a pro finish a DO/varnish finish with wax... See how it turns out. I work from home, shop is in my home, so, I don't get out much and don't know many (well, really now, any) woodworkers locally. I knew a few at the local woodcraft, a number of guys in their late 50s to mid 70s, all who really knew their stuff, and we chatted all the time in 2020 and early 2021. I think they all retired or something sometime around 2021, and that was the last I saw of them. I actually did not have any contact info, they often had their own works shown around cases in the shop, and I just knew them from the shop. They were all great guys, but since they departed that woodcraft, I haven't really met many other turners, and the couple that I have has mostly been in passing (and most are younger like me or younger than that, and newer to woodworking.)