Welcome here Ken!
I got started nearly 25 years ago with a horrible lathe acquired just to make something for my son in architecture school. It wasn't long before I bought a "real" lathe and it's been a delightful spiral since!
I agree with Jim about joining a woodturning club, even if you have to drive a bit. The main AAW web site has a chapter locator. A club will provide good demonstrations, a community to ask and get answers, resources such as wood, loaner tools, and advice. Many, like ours have a mentoring program where you can go to an experienced turners shop for free lessons and advice. I've had many come to my shop.
I agree that some YouTube videos are worse than horrible. Some show poor (stupid) turning technique and unsafe methods. Anyone, skilled or not, can post a video. How do you tell what's bad and what's good without gaining some experience?
For example, when I decided to start turning "Magic" wands around Harry Potter time I first looked for videos - one guy was thinning a spindle with 80 grit sandpaper!!! Zounds. With that method how could he possibly create detail as I like to add to mine?

(BTY, If you are interested at some point I taught myself techniques and I share them in a doc posted on this forum.)
The AAW does have a list of videos that are vetted for quality and safety, but last time I checked some brilliant person had apparently on purpose made it unnecessarily difficult to find specific videos (maybe that has improved).
Also, the advice from several well-known experts and authors is if you learn and perfect spindle turning first it will teach you the fine tool control that will let you turn ANYTHING, big bowls, boxes, vases platters, anything. I have references.
JKJ