Well, not positive here, but friction polish requires a bit of heat to go on and 'flow'. So, if you sand after with 1000 grit, you will generate more heat, which would make things gum up. For me, I sand up to 400, then apply walnut oil (Doctor's Woodshop) with the synthetic grey steel wool pads from Norton. Walnut is open grain so the pore holes will show. If you are applying a wet finish with the grey pads, a bit of a slurry forms and will at least kind of fill in the pores. I prefer a shear scrape as my final pass before sanding, and I prefer a burnished burr on a scraper for that cut (I do have a video on just that subject...). As for sanding, supposedly some where around 600 grit, the scratches are invisible to the human eye. So, sanding to 400 is close, and the grey pads are in that range. I don't use real steel wool any more because it always leaves little nibs all over the wood. Not much of a visible problem on dark wood like walnut, but on some thing like maple, highly visible, and just humid air will cause metal stains in the wood.
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