I don’t know why, but I was nervous about sharpening my bowl gouge. I’m new to turning and my bowl gouge wasn’t performing well, it was dull. I do realize that any type of chisel rarely comes from the factory “ready to use” out of the box. I also didn’t want to “screw up” a brand new tool. What a difference a sharp tool makes. As it does in any setting. Still a learning process, but getting better.
This reminds me of what someone told me when I started turning almost 25 years ago - "If you can't sharpen, you can't turn!" At first, I didn't know how to sharpen so I paid someone at the local Woodcraft store $6 each time to sharpen a bowl gouge. It wasn't long before I decided I could do as well as he could. I do collect free or cheap old tools to regrind or give away so I had plenty to practice on.
Unless you learn to sharpen by hand, the key to a good edge is a good jig. I use two: I sharpen spindle gouges on a 1200 grit Tormek wheel with their gouge jig. I sharpen bowl gouges on a 600 CBN wheel with the Oneway Wolverine with their Varigrind jig. (NOT the Varigrind II. I have words about that one) I keep both jigs preset for the grinds I've decided I prefer so I don't have to adjust them. For more than one grind I'd get another jig.
There are a zillion "favorite" grinds out there and every mfgr (and every "pro" turner/demonstrator) uses one. The thing I discovered is the exact grind doesn't matter much. There are subtle variations that matter in some cases to some people. But when starting out, just go with some grind, learn to sharpen it, and learn to use it. The tool control, arm/hand/leg movement and sharp, sharp, sharp edge is far more important than the exact grind. You can adapt to almost any grind as long as the tool is sharp. In my opinion, of course.
If you don't have a sharpening system, there are lots of options but many, many people use the Wolverine. I use the platform and mini platform for all skews, parting tools, bedan, and such, and the Varigrind for all sizes of bowl gouges. Some mfgrs, like Thompson, provide recommended settings for the Varigrind. Basically, set the angle on the jig, adjust the amount of the gouge that sticks out the front, adjust the support bar so the bevel angle is close to the existing bevel, and grind away. Much of the shape you get (at the nose, the wings) depends on how much pressure and time used at different places on the bevel.
A sharp tool with some reasonable profile far beats a less sharp tool with any profile, original mfgr or not.
I mount the bench grinder and the Wolverine base to a square of 3/4" plywood so I can move it if needed. Note that some bench grinder castings may need some grinding on the bottom before they will sit flat on the plywood or bench. 1/2hp grinders are fine for 8" aluminum CBN wheels. I did use conventional grinding wheels for years but far prefer CBN now.
If you are a member of a club, ask and you might well find someone willing to spend some time with you on sharpening. Some clubs have a formal mentorship program. Some have willing and experienced members. I've had a number of people come to my shop for sharpening as well as turning help. (One guy brought a gouge that looked like it was sharpened by holding it out the door against the pavement on the ride over!!

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Another option, until you get comfortable with sharpening, and depending on what you like to turn, may be to get one of the Hunter carbide tools. These have extremely sharp round cutters that can be used as a gouge or as a scraper. You replace the cutter instead of sharpening. The first one I use for a long time, can't remember, maybe a year or more, before replacing it. (It is advised to rotate the cutter a bit ever day or so to even out the wear.) I prefer one in particular, the small Hunter Hercules for turning at least part of almost every bowl/platter/box I make and on a lot of spindles as well. I used it on almost all of the turning, rough and final, of a wand I just submitted for the June challengem made of very hard and dense African Blackwood. It cut like butter and left an almost polished surface. I keep various Hunter tools but the small Hercules is my go-to. (I do also use various spindle and bowl gouges as appropriate or depending on how I feel at the moment.) John Lucas has some videos on using Hunter tools.
JKJ